Lessons from the Driveway
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Why parents need to tune into their child’s desire
Do the children in your life have time to discover their desire? I recently read another article about the importance of free play and how little time kids have to explore their interests. Time away from structured activities allows kids to learn about themselves and what they enjoy. Revisit this important topic, originally published in February 2021, while I take a personal timeout.
What Ted Lasso can teach us about team culture
Watching the Ted Lasso series, I have so enjoyed how he has, without any great fanfare or hard-nosed tactics, created a team culture that allows his players to not only have fun playing the game they love, but feel like winners regardless of the final score. I’ve read several recaps of a recent episode, and not one of them mentions the line on replay in my mind…
How to prepare your child for collegiate athletics
If your child hopes to be recruited to play college sports, here are some tips on what they should be doing in high school — besides improving their game
Two essential mantras for motivation
It feels like I am in the middle of a tough semester with no end in sight. These two bits of wisdom will keep me going till my book is published and beyond.
I’ll share! It’s the secret to reaching your goal
The 18th century poet Goethe knew the superpowers of keeping a promise to ourselves.
What would James Naismith say today about the game he invented?
We’ll never know, but he was certainly excited about the game he invented at Springfield College 130 years ago. Listen to a radio interview from the 1930s!
Need a bit of inspiration? Watch University of Wisconsin Women’s Volleyball
Those of us desperate to reclaim some of what we’ve lost during the pandemic can learn a few lessons from this dedicated team.
Lessons learned on my way to a birthday
Having a game plan is important. But there’s an even more important secret of life.
Have you heard of this Babe?
When sports fans hear the name “Babe” they probably think of Babe Ruth. But the woman who was talented enough to earn his nickname should also be remembered.
Playing to win or playing not to lose (what’s the difference?)
Playing to win takes commitment, preparation, perseverance—and sometimes, getting out of our comfort zone.
The 1976 women’s basketball team did more than make Olympic history
The Olympic motto encourages athletes to give their best during competition with these three Latin words that mean Faster–Higher–Stronger. The pressure on athletes to do well for their country is always great, but perhaps never greater than when they are the first to have the chance.
Desire | Discipline | Structure
Tomorrow would have been my father’s 89th birthday. Though he passed three years ago, I am encouraged every morning at my writing desk by his words: “If you do not have Desire, Discipline and Structure, you will fail.”
Will your kid get asked to The Big Dance?
Many kids and their parents dream of playing for a popular college team. But what are the chances, really?
Rewarding experiences start with desire
Whose desire drives your children’s activities—yours or theirs? Letting kids discover their desire and choose their own activities provides benefits now and in their future.
Welcome to my blog
Today I launch Lessons from the driveway, where I will share lessons I learned as a coach’s daughter, player, coach’s wife and sports parent. I hope you will join me for lessons and observations about the evolution of youth sports, injuries and opportunities for girls and women.