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The importance of respect — and other lessons of The Matheny Manifesto
I first wrote about the Matheny Manifesto in May of 2021. Mike Matheny’s book came out in 2015. His messages continue to be relevant and timely. Enjoy one of my most-read blog posts while I take a personal timeout.
Living a contented life
Many millennials and Gen Zers are reevaluating their priorities so they can make meaningful connections with others and enjoy activities outside of their careers. I am hopeful those who become parents will also make careful choices for their children by allowing time for free play and exploration. Life is more enjoyable when we have several avenues to joy, and if we are lucky, we learn to live a contented life like my mother.
Will the money you spend on your child’s sport pay off?
Despite knowing the slim odds of getting an athletic scholarship, many parents believe they’ll get a return on their investment
How to prepare your child for collegiate athletics
If your child hopes to be recruited to play college sports, here are some tips on what they should be doing in high school — besides improving their game
Dang! I could have written that book
Why parents will have to be the ones to change the youth sports model
The case for reinventing youth sports
It may sound impossible to change our youth sports culture. But what will happen if we don’t?
How does the 80/20 rule apply to our youth sports system?
Participation is high, but are most parents of young kids really on board with our youth sports culture?
What adults need to remember about organized kids’ sports
Age-appropriate activities should be part of any organized youth sports playbook
50 Years in the Bleachers
Be one of the first to see my book cover—and get a sneak peek of my story!
I like your style. I like your approach. (I like your money.)
When people tell us what we hope to hear, it is on us to be sure what they offer is in our—or our child’s—best interest.
Why do we expect too much from kids who play sports?
Setting expectations based on a child’s age can make the difference between them having a positive youth sports experience and quitting early.
Why Title IX is important to me
It’s a great privilege to have the opportunity to play. And it’s a great responsibility to decide when and how kids should play.
Happy Father’s Day
Kudos to the dads who play games with their kids, who help with homework and especially the ones who tell dad jokes.
The Matheny Manifesto—A big league approach to little league coaching
When former professional baseball player Mike Matheny said yes to coaching Little League, he outlined his philosophy and values in what became known as his “manifesto.” Some parents opted not to provide their son with the learning experience of a lifetime.
Mama bears prepare their cubs for the real world
mama bear (plural mama bears) (informal) A female bear currently rearing one or more cubs. (by extension, slang) A woman, especially a mother, who is extremely protective of a child or children. Merriam-Webster Dictionary